Why Respite Play™ Had to Be Written

There comes a point when lived experience asks for a deeper container.

Respite Play™ didn’t begin as a book. It began as a response — to exhaustion, to over-functioning, to the quiet knowing that rest, creativity, and presence are not luxuries, but necessities for a regulated nervous system.

Over time, what began as a philosophy became a practice. And eventually, it asked to be written.

The Why Behind the Pages

Respite Play™ emerged from years of working with individuals, families, and communities navigating stress, transition, and burnout — often without language for what their bodies were asking for.

Again and again, I witnessed the same truth: people didn’t need more fixing or striving. They needed space. Permission. Safety. Room to breathe and remember themselves.

The book is a gathering of those moments — reflections, practices, and invitations shaped by sound, creativity, and the belief that rest can be both restorative and quietly revolutionary.

What This Book Is (and Isn’t)

This is not a how-to manual or a productivity framework.

It’s a companion.

A place to land.

A reminder that play can be sacred, rest can be intelligent, and healing often unfolds when urgency is released.

The pages are meant to be lived with — slowly, gently, honestly.

What Comes Next

I’m in the process of bringing the Respite Play™ book into the world — thoughtfully, intentionally, and in rhythm with the work it represents.

I’ll be sharing more along the way — reflections, excerpts, and the stories that shaped it — for those who feel drawn to this way of being.

For now, this is simply an opening.

If Respite Play™ resonates with you, trust that resonance.

More will unfold in time.

Lillian Murray